Oral Sex for Beginners
by: Ed Baker

Oral sex for some people is the most intimate and pleasurable aspect of their sex life. It would be hard to get oral sex wrong, but you can always to improve your oral sex style to make it even more intense.

Pleasing your man: You can ask any man and they will tell you that there isn't any such thing as a bad blow job. It is incredibly arousing for men to receive oral sex and a woman who really enjoys giving oral sex are even more arousing for a man. So try to relax and enjoy it. Try to imagine you are holding your absolute favorite ice cream on a steaming hot summers day, instead of his penis. Just imagine how you might fervently lick and suck that ice cream. You might slow down and enjoy every second of it, or you might want to devour it as fast as possible. Or maybe a combination of the two? Try to imagine the sounds you might make, and the look on your face. This is what your man wants to see. If you can do this, you will blow his mind.

As with everything sexual, it is always a good idea to start off slowly with oral sex if you are unsure how to do it in the way that you know your partner enjoys. You must think in terms of making love to your man's genitals ,not only by taking his penis into your mouth but also gently kissing along the full length of it, caressing his balls with your hands, or moving both hands along the shaft to the rhythm of the sucking. What this does is simulate the thrusting motion felt by men during intercourse. If you enjoy pleasuring your partner with oral sex then let him know that by making little groans of pleasure while you are sucking his penis. The little vibrations caused by this noise is felt on the penis and can increase the pleasure for your partner.

Pleasing your woman: A woman's clitoris is the place to be for providing oral pleasure. The clitoris is full of thousands of nerve endings and is extremely sensitive to the touch. But don't jump straight for the clitoris and start munching on it. You're likely to turn her off rather than turn her on.

Use your tongue and lips gently on her clitoris, even using gentle breath can be felt and can be arousing. When she is more aroused the clitoris will increase in size. At this point you could start gently kissing and sucking the clitoris between your lips. Try to gently build a rhythm with no harsh, sudden movements. You might discover that as she becomes more aroused that she starts to grind gently. This is an excellent indication of the speed or tempo she wants you to go.

Although the clitoris should be the main focus point while giving oral sex to your woman, this doesn't mean you shouldn't pay attention to anywhere else. Use your hands creatively, by moving them around her hips and stomach area. You might also like to insert a finger into her vagina while pleasuring her with your mouth. Some women aren't keen on this while it will drive others wild. Just try it and see. You should also pay some attention to her labia and vagina. Although not quite as sensitive as the clitoris it will provide variation to your oral sex play. You can pay attention to these areas and only lightly touch the clitoris with your mouth in order to tease her. But make sure you 'head' to the clitoris before long.

Try things with your partner and encourage them to discuss your oral sex technique. Let them tell you what it is they like and don't like. Allow them to have total control of the oral sex you are giving them and you will quickly discover how to take them to new heights of pleasure.

Oral sex is all about giving. So pay close attention to your partners reaction to your technique and adapt. And never stop learning.

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